Coordinate around your children — not through them
Most family apps assume one home and two parents in it. Gold Stars is built for the way many families actually are — two homes, step-families, grandparents and carers — with secure, child-by-child access as a first-class part of the product.
Your own secure login
Each parent, carer or grandparent signs in on their own device, with their own password. No shared accounts, no passing a tablet between homes.
Access to the right children
You decide who can see which children — full involvement, view-only, or somewhere in between. A grandparent might follow one child; a co-parent might manage two.
Custody & time-with-parent
Put "with Mum" and "with Dad" on a shared calendar, including recurring patterns, so everyone — including the children — can see the plan at a glance.
Requests, handled calmly
A child can ask to spend time with a parent, and a grown-up approves it into the calendar — so plans are made without children carrying messages between homes.
Private where it needs to be
Sensitive things stay private by default. Being a co-parent doesn't automatically mean seeing everything — you share what you choose to share.
Change or remove access anytime
Arrangements change. Access can be adjusted or revoked whenever it needs to be, in a couple of taps.
Keeping children out of the middle
Gold Stars is designed to reduce the everyday friction of coordinating across homes — the reminders, the permission slips, the "did you tell your dad?". It is not a legal tool and doesn't resolve disputes; it simply helps grown-ups organise around a child calmly, so the child can just be a child.
Set up your household in a few minutes · Add the other grown-ups when you're ready